“So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth.” Revelation 3:16
It might sound like a strange thing to complain about, but one of the problems with the modern world is that there aren’t enough things to hate. Everything is meh, lowest common denominator slop, mediocrity in the mass. Almost by definition, you can neither love nor hate mediocrity, and so we go through life lukewarm.
Against this background, I was almost excited to recently stumble across a film that I genuinely hated. In our era of mass entertainment, where so much is produced that is instantly forgettable, it’s very rare to find something worthy of being hated as opposed to simply ignored. Once I’d gotten over my surprise, an intellectual question arose: why did I hate this so much? I’m still not one hundred percent sure I have the answer to that, but I’ll have a crack at summarising it in this post.
The film in question is a Norwegian production released in 2021 whose title in English is The Worst Person in the World. The meta irony is that the title of the film seems to invite hatred. After all, wouldn’t it be natural to hate the worst person in the world? The postmodern twist is that the film religiously avoids any explicit or implicit criticism of its lead character, and, in any case, the story has nothing world-shaking about it at all. In fact, it’s a work of über-realism centring on the lives of everyday people living in Oslo.
There are several other paradoxes that the film manages to engender and which form a large part of what makes it so infuriating. It’s a work that is simultaneously pretentious and genuine, realistic while also engaging in ridiculous fantasy (magical realism – God help us), and nominally all about feelings and emotions even though the story creates no genuine emotional highs or lows. I still can’t figure out whether the whole thing isn’t some kind of postmodernist joke. Nevertheless, even if the movie was intended as a satire, that’s not the way I interpreted it, and the whole reason I stuck with it until the end was because the opening of the film seemed to me not just genuine, but also had the potential to explore some very interesting questions about the modern world.
For the most part, the movie sits squarely within the “realist” genre, i.e., a story about everyday life. This kind of realism is actually a fairly recent innovation, beginning mostly in the late 19th century. The work of Dostoevsky would be a prime example since his stories take place in second-tier towns of second-tier provinces, featuring the lives of ordinary people. But Dostoevsky made up for the averageness of his characters by having them go through very dramatic events involving murder, injustice, betrayal and the like. What he implied was that anybody could be called on to face the biggest questions of life. You didn’t need to be rich or famous, and perhaps fame and fortune are even hindrances that distract from the real issues.
We see a similar approach to realism in the work of Camus. For example, in his novel, The Stranger, Camus explored the possibility that it was possible to commit murder and feel nothing about it. This is the darker side of the subjectivist position. If transcendence and meaning lie in the individual, the good news is that anybody is capable of experiencing it anywhere in the world, even in the middle of nowhere, as per a Dostoevsky novel. However, the individual is also free not to experience it. Camus explored the ramifications of that.
It is in this realist tradition that The Worst Person in the World belongs. The story presents us with an everyday character in the form of Julie, a bright young woman from Oslo. In a wonderfully condensed opening sequence, we find out that Julie was a straight-A student in school who went on to study medicine, not because she was interested in it, but because it seemed like a good use of her intelligence. She quickly learned that she had no interest in becoming a doctor and transitioned into psychology instead. When that also bored her, she tried her hand at photography. Julie’s experimental approach to her studies mirrors that of her love life. Meanwhile, we find out that her mother is supportive of her throughout this period and that she is half-estranged from her father, whose opinion is therefore irrelevant.
What’s brilliant about this opening sequence is that it is an accurate representation of the life of most young people in the modern West. The modern world forces us to be experimenters. That’s true of our career, while the whole point of the modern dating game is to try different partners. There are good aspects to all that, but one of the potential downsides is an over-abundance of possibilities, none of which seem to work out, and so you drift around looking for something that you can’t really define. That’s clearly what Julie’s problem is. She’s looking for something but doesn’t know what it is. So far, so good. The beginning of The Worst Person in the World gives us a very modern hero with a very modern set of problems.
One of the reasons why this setup is so interesting is because it avoids two of the main female archetypes that modern film and literature are fixated upon. The first is the Girlboss, which Hollywood has been ramming down our throats for more than a decade. The second is the woman whose life is a shambles. This is a favourite of the romantic comedy genre. In Julie, we have a character who is capable and intelligent, but isn’t interested in following default social scripts or impressing anybody. She’s neither a Girlboss nor a ditz.
Things get even more interesting from there because what happens next is that Julie gets herself into what seems to be a loving and stable long-term relationship. She meets Aksel, who is fifteen years older than her and is a successful comic book writer. They fall in love and begin living with each other. The relationship is serious enough that Julie spends a weekend with Aksel’s family on holiday. This leads to the first important issue that our hero will face, also a very modern problem: when to have children. Aksel wants children, and, even though she is not against the idea, Julie doesn’t want to yet. Aksel asks her what she wants instead, and she doesn’t know.
Within just the first fifteen minutes, the film gives us the promise of something really new and fresh: an intelligent young woman who doesn’t want to be a Girlboss but also doesn’t know if she wants to become a mother. A number of interesting questions are posed. Why is Julie so indecisive? She’s clearly very intelligent but doesn’t know what she wants in life. As a result, she flits around here and there trying different things. Nevertheless, she seems to have found some certainty in the relationship with Aksel, and their relationship is serious enough that the question of children has arisen. Aksel has now asked Julie to make a genuinely life-altering decision. Presumably, it’s the first time she’s had to do that, and she declines to commit.
Meanwhile, we also find out that Julie is now working a minimum wage job in a bookshop. She has gone from training to become a doctor, one of the highest-status jobs in the modern world, to a low-status job. Does she care about that? Is she happy in the bookshop, or is she bored and dreaming about something more? We don’t really know, and so this becomes another theme that we expect the movie to explore. If anything, the opening fifteen minutes sets up too many avenues that the story could take, and it’s not clear what’s going to happen next. That’s a nice problem to have, and, in any case, the overall theme is clear. Julie needs to figure out what she wants in life.
A big part of the reason why I ended up hating The Worst Person in the World is that, after such a promising beginning, the story almost systematically fails to deliver on any of the themes it introduces. If it wasn’t for such an excellent opening, I never would have stuck with the movie til the end, but I got trapped in a sunk cost fallacy and kept watching to see whether they would either resolve the issues or, by failing to resolve them, make some other point. Neither of these things happened.
The sunk cost problem was made worse by the fact that there are a number of genuinely charming scenes throughout the film that are interesting in themselves. The trouble is that the film wants to pretend that these scenes are unrelated even though it presents them in a linear fashion and even though there is a clear narrative progression through them. That’s another paradox that exists in this film. It wants to be postmodern and not have to worry about silly little things like narrative continuity, while also giving us what is very obviously a story with a well-defined and interesting hero. It wants to both be a story and not be a story at the same time.
This postmodern wink-wink, nudge-nudge tactic ends up being used as a way for the writers to systematically avoid dealing with any real issues. One of these occurs around the midpoint of the film. We know that Aksel wants to have kids, but Julie is not ready. Fine. They argue it out. Julie “wins” the argument, and things seem to settle back into stability. In fact, Aksel and Julie seem perfectly happy together. The movie goes out of its way to show us that.
Imagine, then, that the very next thing that happens is that Julie is going to cheat on Aksel, even though the film has shown us quite clearly that they are happy together. Why would she do that? Is she dissatisfied? Is she bored? We don’t know, and we don’t ever really find out, just like we don’t find out whether she likes working in the bookshop or any of the other issues that the film introduces. It becomes clear by the midpoint of the movie that the storywriters have no intention of resolving any of these issues. As a result, the film never deals with anything meaningful. The result is that we as the audience face the same problem as Julie: a lack of meaning. Julie doesn’t know what she wants, and we don’t either. But we do get to spend the whole movie watching her not find out.
If the film were simply vacuous nonsense or a bit of light fun, it would at least be consistent. But what makes it all much worse is that the film knows how to introduce interesting issues, only to leave them unresolved. If it happened only once or twice, it could be put down to a mistake, but it happens time and again. The worst example of that occurs around the midpoint of the movie, and this is where I really got mad. At exactly the moment when a proper moral issue arises, the film suddenly drops its rigorous realism and introduces firstly a gaping plot hole and secondly a scene of magical realism that comes out of nowhere. The events unfold like this.
Aksel is a successful comic book writer who is having a launch party for his latest work. Julie goes along but quickly gets bored. She tells Aksel she is going home. Not very supportive behaviour and raises the question of whether Julie has a problem with Aksel’s work, but Aksel seems not to mind. He kisses her goodbye, and we have a nice scene where Julie walks home in the early evening through some picturesque Oslo neighbourhoods. On her walk, she stumbles across a bar where a wedding reception is taking place and decides to crash the party. She meets a handsome man called Eivind, and they hit it off. After a few drinks, they both tell each other they are in relationships and agree not to cheat. What follows is a charming scene where they share a series of intimate moments that threaten to get sexual but never do. Early the next morning, we see the two of them part ways without exchanging any details. To re-emphasise the point that nothing untoward has happened, the characters tell each other (and us) that they really didn’t cheat. It was all a bit of platonic fun.
Because this scene is so pleasant and endearing, we almost forget the larger context in which it has taken place. Let’s think about it from Aksel’s point of view. His long-term girlfriend, the woman he has been living with for several years, has told him she’s going home. Therefore, when he gets home himself later in the evening, he will expect to find Julie there. But, when he arrives, Julie’s not there. What would Aksel do in this situation? Obviously, at the bare minimum, he would send her a text message to find out where she is. If he gets no response, he would try to call, and if there’s no answer to that, he would start to worry. That’s what it means to be in a long-term relationship. It’s basic common sense.
More importantly, however, although we know that Julie is just having a bit of platonic fun, Aksel is certainly going to have a very different opinion on the matter. The idea of his long-term partner spending an evening drinking and flirting with another man is probably not going to appeal to him. Therefore, when Aksel calls to ask where Julie is, her response will be very revealing. Will she lie to him? If so, it proves that she knows that the evening with Eivind is inappropriate. Furthermore, if she’s prepared to lie to Aksel about it, then we can infer that there are problems in the relationship. If he believes the lie, then we learn something about Aksel.
All of this is standard fare in any number of romance movies, but this film decided that these issues simply didn’t need to be addressed. This might have been forgivable if the rest of the movie wasn’t almost excessively realistic in its portrayal of the minutiae of modern life. Having gone into great detail about other aspects of Julie and Aksel’s relationship, the story decides to skip what is, up to this point, the most important thing that has happened, a truly make-or-break moment. I started to wonder whether the only guiding principle of the film is simply to do the opposite of what the audience would expect. Perhaps the story is nothing more than a postmodern pastiche that is clever enough to know how to invert common tropes but has no concern with having the end result make sense.
In any case, we never see whether Aksel tried to call Julie, whether Julie lied to him, or whether there was any questions asked when she got home early the next morning. That would have been bad enough, but what happens next is even worse. Julie and Eivind had not exchanged phone numbers when they said goodbye after their evening of fun, but, what do you know, Eivind just happens to stumble into the bookshop where Julie works. What are the odds? He tells her he wants to see her, and she is clearly interested in the offer. That is when, out of nowhere, and in a movie that has until now been rigorously realistic, we are subjected to an extended scene of magical realism. Time stops for everybody else in the world except for Julie and Eivind. What is the purpose of this incredible suspension of the laws of nature? To allow them to have another night of fun, and this time the no cheating rule has been dropped.
I’ll admit, I hate magical realism with the fire of a thousand suns, but, at the very least, it seemed that this scene finally meant that something interesting was about to happen in a film that had started so promisingly and then delivered little. Perhaps now we were going to see a proper confrontation that would reveal something deeper about the characters. Julie had now cheated on Aksel and decided to break up with him. This didn’t make a lot of sense since, as far as we have been led to believe, they were both happy together, but at least we might now learn the truth about the relationship. Maybe there are all kinds of skeletons in the closet that will be revealed. Furthermore, we can expect to finally find out what Aksel is made of. Is he clueless? Ignorant? Dumb? Is he going to take this lying down? As for Julie, is she going to continue to lie? Will she show remorse, or what?
Once again, the film had managed to set up a whole host of unanswered questions. Once again, it systematically manages to avoid all of them. But at least we get an answer to one question: Julie is prepared to lie. Upon finding out that she wants to break up with him, Aksel asks her directly whether she has met somebody else. She tells him, no. We know she’s lying. The story knows she’s lying. And, yet, the lie is glossed over, and we go into a heated argument that takes place under false pretences because Aksel is ignorant of the truth. The absurd irony is that the movie’s only real message seems to be that we should live day-to-day and be in touch with our emotions, and yet all of this amounts to blatant dissociation. What is the point in being in touch with your emotions if those emotions are based on systematically ignoring basic facts about reality?
In the broader scope of the story, these developments also subvert our expectations for where things were going. Julie began the movie as merely an indecisive young woman. She is still indecisive, but now she has become a liar and a cheat into the bargain. Is the movie going to hold her accountable for this? Absolutely not. In fact, it gets even more preposterous towards the end, but I won’t bore anybody with the details. Once again, it’s hard to avoid the conclusion that the storywriters were just inverting common tropes for the sake of it. Stories about romantic infidelity are a dime a dozen, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen one where the cheater lies and then nothing happens after that. Most people feel bad about such things. Does Julie? We don’t ever really know. And that becomes the whole problem in general; we don’t ever really find out what’s going on with Julie at a deeper level because the story never forces her to confront any of these issues.
For that reason, The Worst Person in the World is not really a story at all because the whole point of stories is to force the hero to confront difficult truths about themselves or the world at large. This is even true of tragedies where the hero comes to grief. In fact, tragedies force the hero to deal with the most difficult aspects of existence. What becomes clear by the midpoint of The Worst Person in the World is that Julie is not going to be forced to confront any real difficulties whatsoever. The one person in the film who now has a genuine reason for grievance against her, Aksel, is going to get wheeled out later on to do nothing more than simp for her. There’s a whole other essay I could write about the gender politics of the movie, but the short version is that the men in the story all suck. More specifically, they exist for the sole purpose of giving Julie what she wants, and when they fail to do that, they are removed.
For that reason, The Worst Person in the World becomes a monodrama. There is not a single scene where Julie is not the centre of attention, and the sole purpose of every other character is simply to give Julie whatever she wants whenever she wants it. Even the laws of nature are there to serve Julie’s every whim. It’s pure narcissism. After such a promising start, The Worst Person in the World ended up being a piece of self-absorbed garbage, and, by the end, I was seriously bitter about the fact that I had got sucked into watching it. The only thing that could have saved it was some kind of twist ending that made clear that the whole thing was a joke. But there was no twist ending, and if there is a joke in there somewhere, it is very well hidden.
And so we get a story that is nominally a piece of hardcore realism portraying the lives of normal young people in Oslo, which nevertheless feels completely unreal because it is incapable and unwilling to explore any of the issues raised. The result is just a series of scenes that flit past like a group of social media posts. Julie thought she was in love but then met somebody who seemed better, only he wasn’t better, so she moved on to the next thing, and then the next thing. Even against this background, the story could have explored what it would mean for Julie to overcome that. To say it again, that’s the whole point of a story: the hero confronts some of the negative aspects of their reality and tries to do something about them. The reason we use the word “hero” is because it requires courage and strength of character to do this.
The true shame of The Worst Person in the World is that it correctly identifies a number of modern problems while giving us a hero who seems capable of confronting them and then completely fails to do so. That is why the film is worth hating. It provides nothing more than a piece of escapist magical realism. If you’re going to use magical realism, why not use it to solve the hero’s problems? Why not solve the world’s problems while you’re at it? The thing is that, even in stories where magic forms a normal part of the universe in which the characters live, magic is a dangerous and difficult thing because the use of it requires you to commit to a moral and intellectual point of view about how the world should be. That is what The Worst Person in the World systematically fails to do. It doesn’t have the courage or the strength of character to even make an attempt.